FEB: MONTH OF LOVE | HEY LIAO!: FEB: MONTH OF LOVE

20.2.13

FEB: MONTH OF LOVE


"Every month should be the month of love! We should never stop telling the ones we love that we cherish and love them." 


I am way past valentines day however I think every month should be the month of love! We should never stop telling the ones we love that we love and cherish them."

For all of us that are fortunate enough to have parents who love and care for us we must never forget to show them how much they mean to us and how much we appreciate and love them. Not only our parents our sisters and brothers and of course grandparents. Never take those you love for granted. One day we will all leave this place we call home. You never know who's going to leave, it may be you or the ones you love that must go first. We all have to go through that eventually but as long as you treat them and care for them 100% you will always look back with a smile because those memories you shared and the care you put in will never leave, they will be forever in your hearts. 

As for Relationships, finding the person you love, soulmate, partner however you like to call it, is an amazing thing. That itself should not be taken for granted. I have been through relationships of my own and understand the hardships at times and also the blissfulness. 

A younger sister of mine told me recently that she was upset about having to leave her boyfriend whom she loved because it would be long distance. They both knew it was the only way since we are all students in our early 20s, we have a whole life ahead of us and goals we want to achieve. I too did go through the same goodbye with someone amazing and whom I love.

I thought about love and how rare it was to find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with but I also know that time will tell if this person whom you love will be the "one"! 

I wrote this on my facebook wall because I wanted to bring some comfort for the ones I love and the ones I knew were going through the hardships of relationships. Being separated because of distance while still loving deeply is emotionally straining but if we see it in a different perspective it may shine another light on it.

"Dear,___ I couldn't sleep last night because I know that it's over between us. I'm not bitter any more, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I'll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I'll be seeing you"-Noah from the notebook.

I hope this gives you strength anyone who is in a relationship wether it may be long distance or not. Always remember to be true to yourself, be kind, giving and truly love. Don't fear it or give less because you are afraid of getting hurt.

"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. "

If you have loved like this and felt it! Lucky you! For these feelings will live inside you forever. Wether it may be a memory or something you feel right now.

We don't know where life will take us but its good to be supporting and encouraging to one another :) that's love! Wanting the best for that awesome person in your heart!


I personally would have never been able to write this if it wasn't for personal experience. I felt for the first time the feeling of pure bliss! The blissfulness comes from the fact that the person I was with was a confident and good high quality guy. He taught me what love really was and love was not stressful and hard. It was not stressful and hard because we worked as a team through everything, no confusion or fuss and what we cared about was the same. We were sensitive in similar ways,  It was easy to love, I wasn't insecure about giving and it's because he was confident about giving me love. It was because of him I understood what it meant to let go and no matter where we are in the world he would have my full support because I honestly believe in him that much. He made me a better person.


I felt this quote by Noah from the Notebook was exactly what love is supposed to be. You just want to be supportive and giving and that no matter what happens you know it will all work out fine wether together or not. It's this energy that pushes you to be the best you can and having someone believe in you. I don't believe a soulmate has to be the one you marry I believe a soulmate is someone who gives you energy and understands you. Yes it probably would be awesome to marry your soulmate but if you find that person it isn't important if you are together or not at the end. It's the process and the memories you built together that will be your fuel, your drive to always be a good person and be the best you can be. 


I know it is hard but at the end of the day we don't know where life will take us but it's good to be supporting and encouraging to one another :) That is love! Wanting the best for that awesome person in your heart! 


Also remember to never degrade yourself and put down yourself for what may seem like love, love is about giving but it is also about loving yourself and gaining energy to your soul! I really mean it and have felt it, this energy that was charging my soul! If it takes you years of not having someone but then eventually finding someone so perfect, it is well worth the wait! Don't let anyone give you less than you deserve :) It's not about give and take I think. 


It's about give and give. When both sides give you gain! You both gain lots of positivity, confidence and energy and that is what a relationship should be like! Healthy and rewarding! 


:) Lets look at some amazing love! 


Love always grows, in different ways but the root is love :) Make the most of it and cherish right now.

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